Summer of Pleasure: How to Stay Cool, Comfortable, and Turned On During a Heatwave
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Hot Days, Hotter Nights — If You Do It Right
There’s nothing quite like a summer heatwave… until you're too sweaty to snuggle and the idea of skin-on-skin feels like a workout. But don't worry — intimacy doesn’t have to be put on pause just because the sun is showing off.
Whether you're flying solo or getting steamy with a partner, here’s how to stay cool, comfortable, and turned on — even when the temperature's rising.
🌅1. Time It Right
Summer intimacy is all about timing. Midday sessions can leave you sticky and uncomfortable, so aim for the cooler hours: early mornings or late evenings. Not only is it more comfortable, but there’s something undeniably sexy about a sunrise quickie or a slow, post-sunset play session.
💦 2. Use Cooling or Water-Based Lubes
When it’s hot, skip anything sticky or heavy. Water-based lubricants are your best friend in summer — they’re lightweight, body-safe, and easy to clean up. Want to level up? Look for lubes that include cooling ingredients like menthol or aloe for a refreshing tingle.
🚿 3. Take the Fun to the Shower
If you're feeling overheated, a cool shower can be the perfect place to get clean and dirty. Waterproof sex toys (like bullet vibrators or suction toys) are made for steamy, splashy sessions that leave you refreshed instead of sweaty.
Try a slow, sensual build-up under running water — or get playful with a partner and a detachable showerhead.
🌬 4. Keep It Light — Literally
Ditch the heavy blankets and silky lingerie. In summer, breathable fabrics, soft cotton sheets, and a well-placed fan are your best allies. Slow things down with gentle caresses, teasing, or temperature play. (Pro tip: Run an ice cube down your partner’s spine or inner thigh. Thank us later.)
❄️ 5. Explore Cooling Toys
Yes — some sex toys are naturally cool to the touch! Glass and metal toys retain lower temperatures and feel amazing against hot skin. You can even pop them in the fridge for a few minutes (just not the freezer) for extra chill thrills.
🧘♀️ 6. Turn Self-Care Into Self-Pleasure
Summer is the perfect time to slow down and reconnect with yourself. Think: iced coffee, breezy music, a body mist spritz — and your favourite vibrator. Make solo pleasure part of your summer self-care ritual and celebrate feeling good in your skin, sweat and all.
💖 Pleasure Doesn’t Take a Summer Break
You deserve pleasure that feels as good as a dip in a cool pool — no matter the weather. With a few simple tweaks and the right tools, summer sex can be just as hot and refreshingly satisfying.